Artikel yang membuat website MCB Master Core Brain dikunjungi 10000 pembaca setiap hari nya kembali diketik disini, selamat membaca ...
“di dalam setiap kepala seorang anak terdapat lebih dari 10 trilyun sel otak yang siap tumbuh. Satu cubitan atau pukulan mampu membunuh lebih dari 10 milyar sel otak saat itu juga. Satu bentakan atau makian mampu membunuh lebih dari 1 milyar sel otak saat itu juga.
Sebaliknya 1 pujian atau pelukan akan membangun kecerdasan lebih dari 10 trilyun sel otak saat itu juga.”
RUSAK MILYARAN SEL OTAK ANAK kalau Dimarahi Dibentak Dicubit Dipukuli ! Dari beberapa artikel dan penelitian disebutkan bahwa, satu bentakan merusak milyaran sel-sel otak anak kita. anak yang masih dalam pertumbuhan otaknya yakni pada masa golden age (2-3 tahun pertama kehidupan, red), suara keras dan membentak yang keluar dari orang tua dapat menggugurkan sel otak yang sedang tumbuh. Sedangkan pada saat ibu sedang memberikan belaian lembut sambil menyusui, rangkaian otak terbentuk indah.
Penelitian dilakukan Lise Gliot (salah satu peneliti, silahkan cari di google) ini pada anaknya sendiri dengan memasang kabel perekam otak yang dihubungkan dengan sebuah monitor komputer sehingga bisa melihat setiap perubahan yang terjadi dalam perkembangan otak anaknya. “Hasilnya luar biasa, saat menyusui terbentuk rangkaian indah, namun saat ia terkejut dan sedikit bersuara keras pada anaknya, rangkaian indah menggelembung seperti balon, lalu pecah berantakan dan terjadi perubahan warna. Ini baru teriakan,” ujarnya.
Dari hasil penelitian ini, jelas pengaruh marah terhadap anak sangat mempengaruhi perkembangan otak anak. Jika ini dilakukan secara tak terkendali, bukan tidak mungkin akan mengganggu struktur otak anak itu sendiri. “Makanya, kita harus berhati-hati dalam memarahi anaknya,” Tidak hanya itu, juga mengganggu fungsi organ penting dalam tubuh. Tak hanya otak, tapi juga hati, jantung dan lainnya. (baca detil penjelasan tentang efek buruk nya disini )
Teriakan dan Bentakan menghasilkan gelombang suara. Ya, hampir semua orang mengetahui itu. Yang belum banyak diketahui orang banyak adalah, bentakan yang disertai emosi seperti marah menghasilkan suatu gelombang baru.
Emosi negatif seperti marah mempunyai gelombang khusus yang merupakan gelombang yang dipancarkan dari otak. Gelombang ini dapat bergabung dengan gelombang suara orang yang berteriak. Nah, gabungan gelombang suara dan gelombang emosi marah ini menghasilkan gelombang ketiga dengan efek yang khusus.
Efek dari gelombang ketiga ini adalah sifat destruktifnya terhadap sel-sel otak orang yang dituju. Dalam satu kali bentakan saja, sejumlah sel-sel otak orang yang dijadikan target akan mengalami kerusakan saat dia terkena gelombang ini, baik bila dia mendengar suaranya atau pun tidak. Hal ini karena gelombang ketiga ini tetap merambat sebagaimana dia gelombang suara tapi langsung ditangkap oleh otak sebagaimana gelombang otak. (silakan baca penjelasan gelombang otak)
Efek kerusakan pada sel-sel otak akan lebih besar pada anak-anak yang dijadikan sasaran bentakan ini. Pada remaja dan orang dewasa mengalami kerusakan yang tidak sebesar anak-anak, tapi tetap saja terjadi kerusakan.
Efek jangka panjangnya dapat dilihat pada orang-orang yang sering mengalami bentakan di masa lalunya. Mereka lebih banyak melamun serta termasuk lambat dalam memahami sesuatu. Orang-orang ini biasanya mudah meluapkan emosi negatif seperti marah, panik atau sedih. Mereka biasanya seringkali mengalami stress hingga depresi dalam hidup, karena kesulitan memahami pola-pola masalah yang mereka hadapi. Semuanya akibat dari sel-sel otaknya yang aktif lebih sedikit dari yang seharusnya.
Oleh karena itu, sebagai orang tua, pendidik, ataupun orang yang lebih tua dari ‘mereka’, sebaiknya memilih sikap yang lebih kreatif dalam menghadapi tingkah anak yang mungkin kurang baik. Seringkali orang tua bukan mencegah, mengarahkan, dan membimbing sebelum kesalahan terjadi. Seharusnya orang tua mempertimbangkan tingkat perkembangan kejiwaan anak, sebelum membuat aturan. Jangan menyamakan anak dengan orang dewasa. Orang tua hendaknya menyadari bahwa dunia anak jauh berbeda dengan orang dewasa. Jadi, ketika menetapkan apakah perilaku anak dinilai salah atau benar, patuh atau melanggar, jangan pernah menggunakan tolok ukur orang dewasa.
Harus diakui, orang tua yang habis kesabarannya sering membentak dengan kata-kata yang keras bila anak-anak menumpahkan susu di lantai, terlambat mandi, mengotori dinding dengan kaki, atau membanting pintu. Sikap orang tua tersebut seperti polisi menghadapi penjahat. Sebaliknya, orang tua sering lupa untuk memberikan perhatian positif ketika anak mandi tepat waktu, menghabiskan susu dan makanannya, serta memberesi mainannya. Padahal seharusnya, antara perhatian positif dengan perhatian negatif harus seimbang. (baca detil penjelasan tentang makanan super untuk otak anak pintar )
Mari yuk selalu memberi pujian tulus dan pelukan kasih sayang kepada anak-anak kita agar kelak menjadi anak yang cerdas berjiwa penuh kasih sayang.
dan untuk mengembalikan kemampuan Otak anak anda dan juga Mental anak anda, sangat disarankan mengikuti langkah-langkah berikut ini :
1. untuk Otak anak : lakukan Pujian dan DOA di telinga mereka setiap mereka tidur pulas, sambil memasangkan Musik MCB untuk Penenangan Otak dan Peningkatan Memory Otak mereka. juga setiap sebelum tidur serta saat sarapan sangat disarankan agar anak kita minum NutriBrain MCB /Nutrisi Sel dan Otak kita dalam 1 gelas air putih atau 1 botol sedang air mineral.
2. untuk Mental anak : hadirkan anak-anak kita ke Pelatihan MCB Multi Talenta Multi Cerdas, dan untuk Orangtua/Guru/Karyawan mengikuti Pelatihan MCB APASAS , sambil mengikuti langkah nomor 1 diatas untuk diri orangtua/guru/karyawan.
Selamat Belajar sepanjang waktu, demi mencapai Harapan dan Cita-cita yang Gemilang untuk Masa Depan kita dan anak-anak kita. ANAK CERDAS MULIA MCB INDONESIA !
ENGLISH VERSION
Once snapped scolding her , billions of brain cells son ‘ broken destroyed’ !
” Did you know in each head of a child there are more than 10 trillion brain cells that are ready to grow . A growl or abuse can kill more than 1 billion brain cells immediately. A pinch or stroke can kill more than 10 billion brain cells immediately. Instead one praise or hug will develop intelligence more than 10 trillion brain cells on that day. “
From some of the articles and reviews mentioned that , a growl ruin billions of brain cells to our children. Lise Gliot findings , concludes the child is still in the growth of the brain that is in the golden age ( 2-3 years of life , red), loud noises and snap out of the parents can drop the brain cells that are growing. While at the time the mother was giving soft caress while breastfeeding, brain tissue is formed beautiful .
Gliot Lise ‘s own research done by installing itself on her brain recorder cable connected to a computer monitor to be able to see all the changes that occur in the brain development of children. “The result is amazing, is currently nursing a network formed beautiful , but she was surprised and a little hard on her voice , a wonderful range up like a balloon , then burst a cluttered and a change of color . This new cry , ” he said. From the results, a clear influence on the child’s anger is affecting brain development in children . If this is done uncontrollable , it is not likely to interfere with the child’s own brain structure . “Therefore , we must be careful in scolding her , ” Not only that, also interfere with the function of vital organs in the body . Not only the brain , but also the liver, heart and more.
Cry and bark to produce sound waves . Yes , almost everyone knows that. Yet little is known of the people is , growl that accompanied the emotions like anger produce a new wave .
Negative emotions such as anger have specific wave is a wave that is emitted from the brain. These waves can be combined with the screaming sound waves . Well, a combination of sound waves and waves of angry emotion produces a third wave with special effects .
From some of the articles and reviews mentioned that , a growl ruin billions of brain cells to our children. Lise Gliot findings , concludes the child is still in the growth of the brain that is in the golden age ( 2-3 years of life , red), loud noises and snap out of the parents can drop the brain cells that are growing. While at the time the mother was giving soft caress while breastfeeding, brain tissue is formed beautiful .
Gliot Lise ‘s own research done by installing itself on her brain recorder cable connected to a computer monitor to be able to see all the changes that occur in the brain development of children. “The result is amazing, is currently nursing a network formed beautiful , but she was surprised and a little hard on her voice , a wonderful range up like a balloon , then burst a cluttered and a change of color . This new cry , ” he said. From the results, a clear influence on the child’s anger is affecting brain development in children . If this is done uncontrollable , it is not likely to interfere with the child’s own brain structure . “Therefore , we must be careful in scolding her , ” Not only that, also interfere with the function of vital organs in the body . Not only the brain , but also the liver, heart and more.
Cry and bark to produce sound waves . Yes , almost everyone knows that. Yet little is known of the people is , growl that accompanied the emotions like anger produce a new wave .
Negative emotions such as anger have specific wave is a wave that is emitted from the brain. These waves can be combined with the screaming sound waves . Well, a combination of sound waves and waves of angry emotion produces a third wave with special effects .
The effect of this third wave is destruktifnya nature of brain cells intended person. In one fell bellow it, a number of brain cells that become the target will suffer damage when he was hit by the waves , both when she heard his voice or not. It is because of this third wave will propagate as sound waves but he immediately caught by the brain as brain wave .
Effect of damage to brain cells will be greater in children who were targeted this growl . In adolescents and adults who do not suffer damage as much as the kids , but still the crash.
Long-term effects can be seen in people who often suffer from bark in the past. They include more romance and slow in understanding things. These people are usually easy to excite negative emotions such as anger, panic or sadness . They usually are constantly experiencing stress to depression in life, because of the difficulties to understand the patterns of their problems . They result from brain cells a little more active than it should be .
Therefore, as a parent , educator , or someone who is older than ‘ them ‘ , we recommend choosing a more creative attitude in the face of child behavior may be poor . Often parents not prevent , direct , and coach before the offense occurred . Parents should consider the child’s level of spiritual development , before making arrangements . Do not compare children with adults . Parents should realize that young world far different from adults. So , when setting the assessed child behavior is right or wrong , obey or disobey , do not ever use benchmarks as adults.
It should be recognized , older people are often exhausted his patience snapped with harsh words when the kids spilled milk on the floor, a late shower , dirty wall with legs, or slamming the door . The attitude of the old man as police face criminals. Instead , parents often forget to give positive attention when the child bath time, spend the milk and food , as well as setting up piece. When it should be , between positive and negative attention attention should be balanced .
Let’s go ahead always give sincere compliments and hugs love for our children to come to be a smart kid loving soul .
Therefore, as a parent , educator , or someone who is older than ‘ them ‘ , we recommend choosing a more creative attitude in the face of child behavior may be poor . Often parents not prevent , direct , and coach before the offense occurred . Parents should consider the child’s level of spiritual development , before making arrangements . Do not compare children with adults . Parents should realize that young world far different from adults. So , when setting the assessed child behavior is right or wrong , obey or disobey , do not ever use benchmarks as adults.
It should be recognized , older people are often exhausted his patience snapped with harsh words when the kids spilled milk on the floor, a late shower , dirty wall with legs, or slamming the door . The attitude of the old man as police face criminals. Instead , parents often forget to give positive attention when the child bath time, spend the milk and food , as well as setting up piece. When it should be , between positive and negative attention attention should be balanced .
Let’s go ahead always give sincere compliments and hugs love for our children to come to be a smart kid loving soul .
(http://mastercorebrain.wordpress.com)
also the similar articles is in http://atjehpress.com/2014/02/sekali-membentak-memarahi-anak-milyaran-sel-otak-anak-rusak-musnah/
This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.
ReplyDelete